Many a guy has been at a nightclub, seen a hot girl and thought, “Wow! She really works those boobies, bouncy bouncy.”
Next, he chugged down some liquid courage and strutted up to her. But within a blink of an eye, she shot him down.
With his self-esteem fried to cinders, he limped away.
You can probably relate. I know I can. I’ve been there about a billion times. Heck! – I used to be so scared to approach an attractive woman that I’d imagine her steamrolling me, leaving me for road kill in her wake. How cool is that – I’d disqualify myself without even talking to her.
If you don’t know how to pick up women, then doing so will be more difficult than a blind man trying to find a needle in a haystack.
Realize this: We approach women in the wake of their cuteness – and they know it. Without them uttering a single word, they hook us in.
Half the time, even if you find them as sexy as a hemorrhoid , they’ll still think you’re trying to pick up on them.
Keep reading because this is about to change…
Watching most men approach an attractive woman is as depressing as a costume ball for demented children. The woman is like a pro fisherman with top notch bait and the guy is like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped up, fried, and eaten for dinner.
Even if he’s a fighter, it’s too late – he’s already on the hook (albeit, if he happens to be her physical type, he’s got a shot at success).
I’m also a fish – but an F-ed up, twisted, alien barracuda. Just when they feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them.
They start chomping away at the bait and, then, bam – they’re on my hook and I’m reeling them in.
Let’s look at an example. When at a bar, I’ll stand in a high-traffic area – e.g., near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio. When a girl walks by I’ll jut out my elbow making it next to impossible for her to avoid bumping into it.
Next, I’ll complain, “Ow… you hurt me.”
Almost always , the woman will put her paw on my shoulder and say, “Oh my… I’m so sorry.”
I’ll tease, “You can touch me but first you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.”
This emotionally hooks the woman into an interaction with you.
Once most guys find a woman attractive – usually within the first few seconds of meeting her – they start thinking of ways to get her approval, win her over, and prove themselves to her.
Put simply, she has them emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just about anything they do to impress her, is a sign she is reeling them in even closer.
In the example I gave you, I did the opposite: Instead of trying to impress her, I made her prove herself to me.
In all sexual interactions, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can’t chase each other at the same time.
With few exception excluded, you want to set the frame that you’re the Prize and the woman is the suitor trying to win you over.
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