THE SECRET WEAPON

No, it’s not some Q creation for James Bond. It’s not exploding bubble gum, poison dart ink pens, or remote control missile guidance system (though that might certainly sound tempting at a time like this). The secret weapon is your mind.

The secret? Pretty simple. Your knowledge about him. No other woman will know your better half more than you do, with the exception of your mother-in-law; of course.

Strengths, weaknesses, and fatal flaws you know the good, the bad, and the downright ugly about your man. Even though you have all the dirt, you still manage to love him.

No other woman will have a better knowledge of what her husband is like than you, the wife, except his Mom, of course.

Here’s how:

Get his attention- Get his attention by picking the clothes he likes on you and look your best on those. There’s no need for you to look like a stripper while tending the garden or look like an Easter bunny on a rainy day, just look nice and let him notice you on that. Make yourself presentable. It will make him happy that you take note of his suggestions about which clothes would he like you to put on.

Flatter him shamelessly. Most men are suckers for flattery. Don’t pour it on so thick that he’ll wonder what you’re up to. Start slowly and build up to point where he is so accustomed to your flattery, admiration, and outward signs of respect that no other woman could possibly know him as well or love him as much (in his eyes anyway).

Be the girl he fell in love with. He loved you the way you were when he met. Far too often men complain that women change after marriage. They suddenly become a different person and if they didn’t have that long history and a lot of love to build on the relationship would go very far south pretty quickly. Stop being the girl you think you should be and just be the one he fell in love with in the first place.

One way to do this is to really listen to what your ex is saying. Does he say that you’re too involved with the kids and don’t pay enough attention to you? Does she say you are too focus with work and don’t pay enough attention to her? Typically, financial monetary strain is at the heart of a marital breakup. Especially on this unstable economic condition, cash woes may cause divorces. If you wish to stop my divorce, it’s worthwhile to tackle the financial issues and make a plan for the future. Remember, it would cost extra for you to stay alone than it would for you to live together on a restricted budget.

If the situation occurs that your partner has found a new lover then this means that the new lover or third party is the root cause of the divorce. Ask yourself if there is a strategy that you can use when someone else is involved in your relationship.

For many years there was no way to file for divorce and the reason is that in many societies many people were firm believers that marriage was forever and that divorce was a sin. In this day and time it is a completely different world. A divorce is very easy to acquire and it happens on a daily basis

To file for divorce takes no effort at all these days and it is quick, easy and cheap, unfortunately. You may be asking yourself if it is still possible to save the marriage. Well the easy answer is yes but you must be willing to work hard at it and each of you must acknowledge the problems and work on those problems individually and together. Only this way you may be able to save your marriage.

You can always try and get back your spouse no matter if you think it is too late. You have to put yourself in the right mind frame and use the correct methods to do this. It can be done even if you are the one that is at fault. Never give up.