Approaching girls is one of the biggest obstacles a guy faces when they see a girl they like. This is a very difficult thing to do. By working up your overall confidence, you will overcome that anxiety when it comes to approaching a girl. You have to figure out where and what you are going to say to her.
Let’s slowly breakdown this problem one bit at a time.
How to approach girls with courage.
I can’t lie. Girls can be intimidating, causing guys to be afraid when it comes to talking with a girl. Some guys don’t have this problem, making them very lucky. Just approaching a girl can ruin the chances a guy has with a girl.
Ask yourself, what is holding you back from approaching a girl. Do you think she will not find you attractive enough? Do you think she will find you boring? The problem is there, you just have to ask yourself what it is, and improve upon it.
If you start working out and dressing better, then you won’t feel like you attractiveness is holding you back anymore, giving you the confidence you need. If it’s your conversation that is holding you back, then find a stranger to spark a conversation with.
Where to find the girls and approach them.
A lot of guys really don’t know where girls are for an ideal conversation. I don’t see how hard it is when talking with women, seeing that 50% of the earth is populated with them. Everywhere you look, you can find a woman. Finding them won’t be difficult, seeing as they need to buy groceries just like you, eat like you, go to work, etc.
The location plays a huge role when it comes to approaching girls. Have something in common with the girl, at a place, and strike a conversation. The location of where you approach a girl can make a big difference.
Things you share in common with the girl, whether it’s at a local dance class or hobby group, can go a long way. Questions like, how long have you been coming to this group, will be easier to say.
Succeeding in approaching girls.
Are you ready? There she is, all alone, across the room. What do you think you should do?
Prepare yourself to go up and talk to her. There has to be a reason for you to approach her. Perhaps she wearing something nice, or doing something interesting that will create the conversation starter you need.
If you’re still drawing a blank, try thinking a little harder. If you have nothing to talk to her about try to memorize a few canned PUA routines to keep as a backup plan.
Assuming you’ve got something to say to her and you’ve got yourself motivated, there really is no excuse not to make the approach. Start talking to her and see if this is someone you would want to get to know better. If you two hit it off, get the girl’s phone number and ask her out later.
These are my tips for approaching girls. With some practice you’ll see that approaching girls is actually pretty simple, so just go for it! Jump on the opportunity. Get to know someone new. That stranger could suddenly be your girlfriend down the road.
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