When trying to find a girlfriend, there are no strict guidelines to follow. You cannot say that all the girls will react the same to the strategies you use on them. Some will be positive and others negative. On the other hand, some things must be done to have greater chances of success. These things will ensure no mistakes are done and days of loneliness will be history. For example, the wrong approach of a girl the first time will automatically rule you out as a potential boyfriend. So stick around and find out what will make you a star in the business.
In the streets you could meet many girls, but there is one you are really dying to have. If she is from around and you see her often then that’s good. You will have ample time to make your move. You should not approach her immediately, but try to get her attention on you. The first time you meet her, say hello and pass. Make sure you smile! You should do that the second time you meet her. After several Hellos, maybe she will greet you first. That’s when you will know that she has noticed you.
Next time you meet, find an excuse to talk to her. As you are going to pass her on the street, you could turn around and ask her about something on the street. Listen to her tone of voice. If it is warm, you are doing great! You could start a conversation with her right there but don’t make it too long. Excuse yourself and go on, but not before setting up a date with her. In this way, she will think you are busy and she won’t suspect that meeting her on the street was not by chance.
The next time you meet this girl, you could try to set a date with her. You could invite her for a cup of coffee in a caf, or you could ask her out for dinner. If she is interested, she will say “yes” . If she says “no” she is probably too busy or genuinely engaged on those occasions or she is really not interested in going out with you. Either way, take in good stride and move on.
If she says yes, way to go man! You’ve landed yourself a first date. Now it’s time to practice your conversation. You should make it as interesting as possible. Too many questions on a first date is a definite no-no. Keep it simple and try to make her laugh, but don’t try too much. If she is laughing, we are doing fine!
That’s all I can do for you at this time guys. I must run.
For more on how do you get a girlfriend, James Patrick has shared more advice in Richard’s book “How to Get A Girl” to provide more tips and strategies.
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